After graduation, I have been using hookup apps fro about three years. In my heart, I think they are very useful. I am not very high and graduated from an unknown college. Because now many hook up apps pay more attention to appearance, so originally I should not be popular. But, with good skill to chat ,it's not difficult to ask girls out to play. However, I also knew several excellent men playing with this app. They are not married and have no girlfriends, so I think this app is still very good. Of course, most people use this kind of app for seeking one night stand partners. If they can’t, it's also a good choice to ask girls out for chatting. Then, a boy asked me how I could ask girls out, or let the girl ask you out. He has been using the app for more than half a year, and he has not yet successfully dated offline. I was still quite shocked at that time, because I thought he was very excellent. He is tall and handsome, but we seldom communicated with each other. Maybe it was because he was a little introverted. He asked me if it was caused by that the girls are very reserved now. In fact, it is not. If a girl really likes a boy and has a good impression on him, she will always try to get close to the man. The main reason lies on boys. I'd like to talk about the reason why no girl askes you out. I hope it can help you.
The most important reason is simple. On social app, girls' sense of security is relatively low. In another words, boys can't give girls enough security. I asked a female friend of mine before, and I asked her if she had met netizens before. She replied never. She told me that in fact, she felt that this type of app still had a lot of problems, so she would like to chat with her partners online to kill time instead of having offline meeting. Her main problem is that the men she knows online are not very reliable. She had been asked out by a boy before. After she went out, she found that the boy just wanted one night stand, but she wanted more. I went to ask some of the boys around me and asked if they could give girls enough sense of security. But most of the boys said that they were tall and strong, giving girls a sense of security is not hard for them. But the sense of security that girls want is to prove that you are reliable, not fake. Showing how strong or tall you are can make girls fell you are not a reliable man.
Overall, there are two reasons for girls' lack of security. One is that boys don't understand. Some boys don't find a proper way to express themselves. Second, some girls just want to kill time online. Hope this article will help you find good hookup dating partners from chatting apps.