For transgender women, it is much harder for them to find a boyfriend who loves them unconditionally than for other cisgender women on local hookup apps, because these men will be with them for a variety of purposes. So even if they find their partner, they are not sure whether their partners take the transgender hookup relationship seriously. Therefore, transgender women always have a lot of worries and doubts in kinky dating relationships, which are not conducive to development of trans dating relationship.
In fact, transgender women do not have to worry about and guess whether their partners are sincere to themselves, because you can infer from their behavior. If he has the following behaviors, it means that he really falls in love with you; but if his behavior is contrary to what I describe below, it means that he may not be true to you. You should leave him in time.
1.If he respects you
If your partner really likes you, he will respect you, including your ideas and your decisions. If your partner always asks about your transition process, makes a self-righteous assessment of your decision, and then rejects your decision, it means that he doesn't really care about you, but is just curious about your life, because your life is novel to him. So, if a person really loves you, he will take care of your feelings. He won't force you to answer questions he asks about your privacy but will pay for you silently, waiting for you to be able to open your heart to him voluntarily.
2.If he will compromise
The best way to judge whether a person really likes you and is sincere to you is to see if he will compromise for you. Each of us has his own personality and principles, and usually the two personalities can not be completely consistent. That is to say, you will encounter a lot of friction in your life. At this time, if your partner is always thinking about his feelings, and does not care about your feelings, that means you are not so important to him. On the contrary, if your partner is always trying something you like that he hasn't touched before, it means that he is willing to change himself for you. It is because of his love for you that he can make such a change. And people who really love you unconditionally don't want you to do the same thing. Their love will not demand a return.
3.If he is willing to meet your family
If a person loves you, he will be willing to contact your friends and family because if he really intends to develop a long-term transgender dating relationship with you, meeting friends and parents is the ultimate inevitable outcome. On the contrary, if he resists being involved in your circle of friends and family life, it's because he didn't want to marry you, so he doesn't want to involve your life too much, because it will cause him trouble. Maybe at the beginning, he really refused your invitation because of shyness, nervousness or other reasons, but if you get the same response after a long time, you should reposition your relationship.