Whether you are a man or a woman, online BBW dating is not easy, but there are challenges that women face that most men will never understand. The good news is that you have a lot of power when you meet someone on a curvy dating app. The bad news is that most BBW women do not use this power. If you follow these simple tips, you will be well on your way to success in online tinder hookup.
Be a hunter, not a prey
Many curvy women still post profiles on many BBW dating apps and sites, waiting to see what happens to them. This is a path to failure because it means you have to choose the best you can find. That doesn't sound like a good plan. After all, who knows what you want more than yourself? If you want to find someone who interests you the most, you have to find them.
Focus on the positive
More than men, plus size women have a habit of listing things they don't want on their profiles. Mentioning one or two things is relatively harmless, but turning your profile into a long list of negative information never works. You will only scare off good people and attract parasites who want to feed on vulnerability. Before you post your profile, read it aloud to yourself. Look for the negative emotion and remove it. Focus on what you want to do. Write down your positive goals for your partner. When you drive, you look where you want to go. You don't stare at the truck you're trying to avoid.
BBW dating is not a numbers game
Your friends are great people, they want to be the best for you, but they are not you. They only know their version of you. This is a subjective view of you, and it leads to a lot of well-intentioned but bad advice. The most common bad advice your friends give you is: "you have to go out and date a bunch of guys." You have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince. It's a numbers game. "What I've found is that most people who tell their friends that dating is a Numbers game are playing it themselves. The truth is, this is not a Numbers game. Believe in yourself. Don't fall victim to the social freak (fear of missing out). Dating just to go out on a date can lead to emotional exhaustion. Take your time and make sure you're connecting with people you like, people who really seem to be looking for you. It's worth it!